DO allow me to spend a couple of minutes getting to know you.

DO tell me what turns you on. I'm not a mind reader... no matter how much I wish I were.

DO tell me if I'm taking your fantasy in a direction you don't like. If you need every detail to be just what you imagine, you'll need to share those details with me. When you fantasize it may be about 3 sexy wood nymphs wearing plaid panties while dancing a jig. If that's important to you and you haven't told me, I may start talking about 5 water nymphs wearing polka dots doing the Twist. See how disastrous that could be? *grin*

DON'T hang up on me right before you cum. Some people feel guilty about phone sex as if it were a bad thing. I consider it the ultimate in safe sex. If it makes you feel bad, don't do it. For me these types of disconnects are a bit like reading a wonderful book and finding out someone ripped out the last page. Quite a letdown. I WANT to hear you... I want to know that I "done good".

DO lighten up. Have fun. This is adult "entertainment". Be in a good mood, dim the lights, have a drink or two. It's okay if we laugh a little, cry a little or even discuss our day.

DO feel free to email me or send me an instant message. I will not "cyber" with you, but I love to chat and if you have an elaborate fantasy or just want to make sure I'm knowledgable enough about your particular fetish ... by all means, just ask.

DO realize that you can open up to me. You can say things to me that you can't tell anyone else. I don't judge...I don't criticize. I'm here to listen to you. You have my undivided attention.

well hun ,,do a call with me any time, we have chatted several times in ims,you know my number